Well here i am again,
Lets talk about the concept of "True Love" and "Soul Mates".
I am sure we all have always wondering if we could ever have a like similar to fairy tales, minus begin an actual princess/princes. Well You know what? it is possible, but it is up to us if we truly want to make it work. I know this because i have found my "fairy tale romance" literally :) But that will be saved for another blog :) So today we will be covering the basics of finding a True Love/Soul Mates.
Regardless of our Cultures, our levels of Education or economic status, are of the same desires : To be happy, to be loved and to love.
Of course we can add other desires like Money, wealth and fancy things but when you get into those kind of things, it only gives us reasons to want them so that we can use them to make ourselves look better, to be loved and to be accepted
if love is something so important to us, then why is it that we have so many issues and misunderstandings in the area of finding it? I believe that our past mistakes and experiences actually sets the blueprint for Fate and Destinity to work on. Of course its drawn on with perfection and leaves us maybe a one or 2 bad spots, but not everything has to be perfect. For most of us, it’s been an adventure in trial and error and learning through pain and heart-break.
Who Is Your Ideal Mate?
We all have a rough idea of what our perfect partner is like: beautiful, or smart, or rich, or educated, or tall, or petite, or pale, or dark, or handsome, or fit, with this car, or with that house or whatever else that strikes our fancy.
But in reality; in my case, finding True love is really about connecting with another soul and truely be happy. Looks and appearances shouldnt really matter bc as everyone says, Looks fades with age, but with what is inside, it never grows old.
The truth is this perfect person does not exist. More importantly, we may not actually need all of these qualities in a partner to be extraordinarily happy. What we need is to identify the most important qualities that we must have in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled. By not having identified the must-have qualities in our chosen life partner, we end up settling, and since the person cannot give us the things we truly need, we start to resent them. This will snowball into larger issues.
For example, if height is something that is really important to you, and your partner does not meet that height requirement, regardless of how much they try, they will never grow taller or shrink shorter, and this will bug you and affect your union.
In life, we will get random results if we have not specified what we want. Identifying and understanding what it is that we need in a relationship, allows us to set clear intentions, and in doing so, moves us closer to realizing our intended desires.
As with all things of the heart, there is an ingredient of magic in finding love. There are no coincidences. Everything happens for a reason. Love is beautiful and unpredictable. The best thing we can do is to start to become the most outstanding person possible. The universe will know when we are ready, and when we are, true love will happen, unexpectedly.
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